November 17, 2025

Comfort never made anyone stronger

B&W picture of woman with a gym weight across her shoulders

In a gym class recently, the instructor told us to grab slightly heavier weights than usual.
Then he said something that stuck: “There’s no change without challenge.”

Simple. True. Uncomfortable.

That line kept bouncing around in my head. Because it’s not just about muscles.

It’s about every area where we want to grow.

And every time we quietly avoid the uncomfortable stretch that would get us there.

Challenge and discomfort travel together. The burn in your arms. The awkward pause in a tough conversation. The unease of admitting you don’t know. The fear of trying and failing.

Most people give up right at the moment discomfort appears… and the very moment growth is starting to happen.

So here’s the challenge:
What discomfort are you willing to lean into this week to get the change you say you want?

My best wishes, Paul

Paul Matthews

CEO and Founder of People Alchemy

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